My Coping Plan

Make a coping plan

Before a needle, like the COVID-19 vaccine, or a procedure that makes your child or youth feel a bit scared, try making a coping plan! This is a plan that is unique and special, just like your child.

How to make a coping plan

You can design your own coping plan or print out CHEO's coping plan template. Here are some ideas on what to include:

Distraction techniques

Distraction techniques are things your child can focus on instead of the needle or procedure that scares them. Some examples include:

  • Listening to music
  • Watching a funny video
  • Playing a game like I Spy

Comfort plan

Make a list of things that comfort your child or make them happy. Some examples include:

  • Bringing a favourite stuffie to hug and hold
  • Squeezing a parent or caregiver's hand
  • Wearing loose-fitting, comfortable clothes

Celebration plan

Make a plan for fun things to do after the procedure! Some examples include:

  • Getting a special treat
  • Staying up later than usual
  • Doing a fun activity

Relaxation plan

Make a list of things that help your child stay calm and relax. Some examples include:

  • Taking deep breaths and counting
  • Squeezing their knees together — this can be helpful if they feel faint when getting a needle
  • Closing their eyes and thinking happy thoughts

Questions

Understanding what to expect can help ease anxiety about an unfamiliar procedure, like getting the COVID-19 vaccine. Some questions your child might have include:

  • Which arm will I get the needle in?
  • How long will it take?
  • What will it feel like?

My coping plan

Use the spaces below to create your own coping plan before your procedure.

Distraction techniques

Things I can focus on instead (e.g., listening to music, watching a funny video, playing a game with my parent).

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Comfort plan

Things I can do that make me comfy and happy! (e.g., my stuffie, holding my mom's hand, wearing comfy clothes).

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Celebration plan

These are my favourite ways to celebrate a job well done! (e.g., ice cream, extra screen time, making cookies).

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Relaxation plan

These are things that help me feel calm and relaxed (e.g., taking deep breaths, closing my eyes, squeezing my knees together).

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Questions

These are questions I have that will make me feel better (e.g., "Which arm will the needle go in?", "How long will it take?", "Who will come with me?").

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